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Dholki folio 07

Doli & Vidaai Suhaag pack

ਡੋਲੀ ਤੇ ਵਿਦਾਈ ਦੇ ਸੁਹਾਗ

Farewell suhaag to learn before the wedding day. These are best sung in a family sitting—not performed over the actual goodbye unless the bride wants that.

Where

Rehearse at the last dholki; decide separately what belongs at the Vidaai

Who leads

The bride's closest women relatives

Shape

Memory → farewell → stillness

Before the first beat

  1. 1Learn these earlier in the week, when the family can sing without a timetable pressing in.
  2. 2Choose two or three for the sitting rather than forcing all five into the Vidaai.
  3. 3Ask the bride whether she wants singing, quiet, or recorded music during the actual departure.

The singing order

Two complete songs to try

01

Chad ve chaudvin dia chanda

ਚੜ੍ਹ ਵੇ ਚੌਦਵੀਂ ਦਿਆ ਚੰਦਾ

Find a melody

CueOpen with this when the room is settled and the elders are ready.

VoicesGroup 1 calls · Group 2 answers · everyone repeats

ਚੜ੍ਹ ਵੇ ਚੌਦਵੀਂ ਦਿਆ ਚੰਦਾ, ਚਾਨਣ ਕਰੀਂ ਵੇ ਚੁਫੇਰੇ

Chad ve chaudvin dia chanda, chanan kari ve chaufere

Rise, full moon of the fourteenth, and spread your light all around.

Repeat the round for each elder your family wants to honour.

02

Laaya amb boota nale beriyan

ਲਾਇਆ ਅੰਬ ਬੂਟਾ ਨਾਲੇ ਬੇਰੀਆਂ

Find a melody

CueA quieter suhaag for the bride's close family circle.

VoicesOne confident lead · the room answers the final line

ਲਾਇਆ ਅੰਬ ਬੂਟਾ ਨਾਲੇ ਬੇਰੀਆਂ

Laaya amb boota nale beriyan

You planted a mango tree, with the berry trees beside it.

Families often change the relation named in each round: dada, babul, veera or taaya.

3 more in this ceremony
Printable songbook page showing Gurmukhi lyrics, Roman Punjabi, English meaning and group singing cues
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Full songbook

Keep every ceremony’s songs in one family book

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  • Gurmukhi, Roman Punjabi and plain-English meanings
  • Suhaag, Sangeet, Tappe and Ghorian collections
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Make it your family’s

Write down the version the bride grew up hearing. The emotional truth of the family wording matters more than matching a published line exactly.

Plan the Doli / Vidaai